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Richard A. Lambert, Jr.
73 Greentree Drive, #167
Dover, Delaware 19904
(302) 423-3667 (302) 674-0602 captnrichie@hotmail.com
Dear Pastor:
Hello, my
name is Rich Lambert, Jr. and I wanted to let your ministry know about
some great things God has done in my life. I feel it may be important
to give some background on myself. My father was a Pastor and I was raised
in a Christian home.
At the age of 20 years old I was hit by two tractor-trailers at the same
time. I was killed instantly. When the paramedics arrived they estimate
I was dead for 20-25 minutes. They were able to start my heart, but only
for seconds at a time. Once I arrived at the hospital they were able to
keep my heart beating; however, they did not expect me to live through
the night. In the morning they said I would not live a week. Once I made
it through the week they said if I ever come out of the coma I would be
severely brain damaged. After spending some time in a coma I awoke. I did
have brain damage. I had almost complete lost of memory, hearing lost,
I had double vision, and I had lost control of my limbs. The next two years
I went through all kinds of therapy and physically I was almost completely
restored. However, there were emotional and mental scars they had not healed
yet.
Not too long after being released from all hospital care I feel in love
and married a lady with three children. Things were fine for about a year,
maybe two; then, the enemy used another form of attack on me. He attacked
those emotional and mental weaknesses I had. Soon my wife and I would fight
about everything, money, kids, sex, you name it we fought. I was not raised
that way. I never saw my parents fight or raise their voice to each other.
Seeing married people fighting was something new to me, but I learned very
quickly how to fight.
We opened two retail stores, on top of already owning a vending route.
We began to work too much and we began doing our own things apart from
each other. When we did see each other it would always end in a fight.
It wasn’t long before my wife had a few affairs. That really hurt
me. I turned to drinking. At the end of this road I was drinking a fifth
of whiskey a day. After years of my wife telling me to get a girlfriend
and leave her alone, I took her advice. I had an affair. My wife soon divorced
me.
The pain of the divorce was hard on me. I am not sure just how much it
showed. However, all through this pain God was putting things together
for my deliverance. Within a month or so after my separation from my wife,
God instantly delivered me from alcohol. Also, God opened up a new door
for me at a law firm, which I knew nothing about. This was a God thing.
However, the pain of rejection and being alone I put above God and I soon
found myself drinking more then ever and I begin to sleep around. After
a few heartbreaks I decided that women were no longer going to hurt me,
but I was going to use and hurt them. I must admit that felt good for a
while, but I couldn’t keep living that way. The Spirit of God would
not let me go; neither did I want Him to let me go. For you see God was
still apart of my life. Even though it seemed I was living the biggest
lie, and to most, it did look like a lie. In my drunken state every night
before I either passed out or fell asleep I would ask God to forgive me
and I would cry out to Him to change me and to change the world that fell
apart on me. There were still ambers of hot coals in my heart that still
wanted to serve God with all I had.
Picking up women was not fun any more. Either I would end up getting hurt
or I would feel guilty for hurting them. I was feeling the end of the rope.
Let me tell you; this is where God seems to do his biggest work. This is
the time I ran into Lisa.
God knows when to step in. If I met Lisa just a week or two before we did
our relationship may have ended up different. I was still dating a few
different women including a long-distance relationship. Lisa told me that
if we were to have a relationship I would have to be committed just to
her. That is what I truly wanted, a committed relationship. However, I
was just so hurt from my final divorce and all the other heartbreaks that
came with the sin I was living. After I committed myself to Lisa she was
with me every night holding and caressing me as I cried drunk until I fell
asleep. She would tell me over and over how much she loved me. I called
her my angel.
I have to admit I was scared and I didn’t want to be hurt again.
However, God came through for me at the right time. God can do the same
for anyone who calls upon His name. God will save you too!
I have many stories on the goodness of God and I would love to share some
with you.
Yours in the King’s
Service,
Richard A. Lambert, Jr.
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